Dating

No, not dating anyone...surprise surprise. But I was talking to a friend recently who is dating someone pretty seriously. He was talking about the usual trials and tribulations of dating; who stays over who's house, how many nights a week is too many nights a week, who's got clothes over who's house, toothbrushes, dinners etc. And it came down to the girl he's dating being cranky that she can't sleep at his house. It's the bed, or the pillow, or that it's too hot, or they aren't used to sleeping on the left side, or they just can't get comfortable, whatever it is. It's funny because I think this happens both ways in every relationship. But it sucks because you just feel responsible for their misery all day. You think, my house sucks, my bed is no good, the pillow is too soft, I shouldn't have put my arm around her at 3am. It'll be four in the afternoon and you will still feel responsible about the bad sleep she got that night. It hangs over you and makes you miserable. Not to mention your own shoulder is still killing you from sleeping on it weird.

Ex girlfriends

My good friends know that I temporarily rejoined Facebook about a week ago, and my Facebook friends probably haven't even realized it yet. I was proud of myself, I probably got all of my stalking done within the first five minutes. I still don't know what's more bothersome; Seeing an ex girlfriend with a good looking guy, or an ugly guy. An ex with a good looking guy makes me think I wasn't good looking enough. But seeing an ex with an ugly guy makes you think the girl has no standards and will just date any old guy that gives her attention, whether he's ugly or not. Makes you think that maybe you fit into that category. The ugly category. Or it makes me think, "jeez, I must have been really terrible if she would rather be with that ugly guy than me." or "maybe I was a real ass that she would rather be with this guy who is probably nicer and smarter and makes more money than me." At least with a good looking guy you can just say "eh, she's so superficial just going out with a good looking guy..I am probably nicer and smarter than him." Thoughts?